Enjoyable sex: It´s not about technique or a perfect body or being hopelessly, passionately in love. It´s about sexual intelligence. In his three decades of working with couples and individuals as a sex therapist and marriage counselor, Dr. Marty Klein has continuously seen that although most people say what they want from sex is pleasure and closeness, that´s not what they focus on during sex. Instead, we´re preoccupied with how we look, what our partner is thinking, how we´re performing, and whether we´re normal. We do more thinking, worrying, and judging than experiencing. Sex like that can´t thrill us, can´t create intimacy, and can´t, well, feel sexy. In "Sexual Intelligence", Klein shows how to stop observing ourselves during sex, ending our obsession with sexual performance and sexual normality. "I don´t help people ´function´ better during sex," he says. "I teach people how to relax and enjoy sex with the body they have, the partner they have, in the situation they have." Now that´s something we all want: fulfilling, exciting sex at every stage of our lives. In "Sexual Intelligence", Klein challenges our understanding of sex, love, intimacy, romance, and satisfaction. After all, sex isn´t just an activity. Change the way you think about sex, and you can change your sex life-forever.